Unless you have a black gown, powdered wig, and gavel, don’t be judging me. Saw this crazy list of small things you do that people use to judge you.

Whether you show up on time – Late for a very important date? The person who’s waiting may be forming a negative impression of your personality. “A proactive person will be there on time, because he is self-motivated, mentally organized, and values time whereas a procrastinator will be running here and there at the last hour,” says Humaira Siddiqui.

How you treat restaurant staff – Top execs say you can learn a lot about someone based on the way he or she treats waiters, hotel maids, and security guards

How often you check your phone – if you’re constantly refreshing your email or Facebook feed, one study found you may be less emotionally stable and trying to boost your mood.

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